Learning to connect with our kids goes a long way in making them feel seen, heard, and understood, which in turn boosts their self-esteem and emotional growth.
Modeling compassionate communication can foster a strong value system which is vital for our kids to sustain healthy relationships and live with integrity.
Heal & Transform
Self healing is at the root of parenting with trust and being able to let go of fear. Unloading our childhood burdens can transform our parenting style.
Compliance over Connection?
We may have been trained to expect compliance often at the cost of our relationship with our kids. Many of us may have been raised in the ‘old school’ fashion where compliance was expected and if we didn’t listen we had to experience blame, shame, yelling, love withdrawal, or sometimes even physical abuse. Unfortunately when we feel like we have tried our best and our kids are still not conforming, these domineering ways of communication might be the only strategies that inadvertently come to mind and we feel compelled to use them when our kids do not conform.
No wonder it’s difficult to expect a deep relationship with our kids when we use these communication techniques, no matter how good the intention might be. This raises the question most parents have, which is ‘What should I do if my kid doesn’t want to do the things that I know are important for my child’? There are many possibilities for how we can communicate our intentions without a struggle. It is absolutely possible for kids to comply while having a wonderful relationship with their parents. I believe that each one of us has the strength not just to survive, but to truly thrive.
As a Parent coach, I can help you unpack all the generational parenting patterns and work on developing the communication skills that can make your parenting effective and rewarding. Click here to learn more about the Services:
Do you often feel like you have tried your best and your kids are still not conforming?
Are you experiencing difficulty developing a deep relationship with your kids?
Would you like to achieve compliance without struggle?
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“This program has advanced my relationship not just with my children but also with my husband and myself. It has helped me heal my childhood wounds that I didn't realize was blocking me from being the parent and person I wanted to be. Now I am able to see the big picture for my children and I feel prepared with the tools to parent each day in a fulfilling way. “
— Mom of Three
“When I thought that I had hit a ceiling with regards to my capabilities as a parent, Beautiful Bonds opened a new door. As I progressed through the course, I became increasingly aware of my own fundamental misunderstandings of how growing kids express themselves and what they look for in parents. Even midway through the course, I had made significant progress. What were previously rare and fleeting moments of pure joy in my relationship with my kid became common and consistent. I feel that I grew as much as a person as I did as a parent. Dr. Raju made this journey possible for me and I am eternally grateful.”
— Mom of One
The Next Step
Once I have a sense for the changes you are seeking in your parenting, I will share how I can help. Together we will come up with a plan that will serve your needs best.
If for any reason we find that we are not a good fit, I will share alternative resources or recommendations.